🛡️ Rule #1 · First Meet Venue
Always Meet in a Public Lounge or Cafe First
Even when both of you are excited about a casual granny meetup, always begin with a 30-minute drink at a well-lit wine bar, hotel lobby lounge, or botanical cafe. Once you verify mutual attraction and comfort in person, you can decide together whether to continue the evening privately.
🚫 Rule #2 · Zero Financial Transfers
Never Send Gift Cards, Gas Money, or Crypto
Genuine single grannies and genuine younger men never ask for Apple gift cards, Steam cards, "babysitter fees," or gas money before meeting in person. Anyone requesting money or moving you to telegram to pitch cryptocurrency is an impostor—block and report them immediately.
🔒 Rule #3 · Personal Data Hygiene
Keep Your Home Address & Workplace Private Initially
Use the platform's encrypted messaging until you have met face-to-face. Share your general suburb or outward postcode (e.g., Sarasota FL or Cheshire UK) rather than your exact street name or HOA gate code before the first coffee date.